me and my (female!) friend were talking about our dream careers & so, and she said she hopes her husband’s job will be enough to support their family because “it’s not a woman’s place to work outside” so I jokingly said – “well, next you’ll say it’s not a woman’s place to learn to read & write either” and she actually said “ oh no, she should so that her husband won’t find talking to her boring”. when I tried to tell her that a woman should have worth even without a husband I got a lecture on what “a failure of a woman” I am, and how “foolish and childish” I sound and… I just had to leave before I blew up. I thought I knew her! literally what. the. hell. girl….